Update June 27 2013

STOP IT.

My body has been invaded
twice by strangers who do not
belong. One would end me.
One would save me
for a miraculous moment I
do not yet know about.

— Lewis Cancer Center, June 27, 2013

The chemo, for this phase, is over. Surgery or radiation is next. We do not know yet. As it seems with all cancer, all depends on tests.

Nora’s friend, Regina, was there on the spot. What a truly lovely lady, with her cookies, with her cleverness, charm, silliness. She promises to come to The Ridge. Nora is eager for that, for anything but another trip to Savannah (which we will do in two weeks for a blood infusion).

Except for the people she’s met there. It is an unimaginable environment for those of us who contend with only the drivel of our days. Bills, school, crabgrass, cars needing fixing, an appointment missed (so sorry, I was in chemo), misplaced keys, disappointing sports scores. Except for the chemo, it is all nothing.

Nora has been exhausted. Short of breath. But her hair (slowly) grows back. Today’s joke was “Which side should I part it on?” It went over well. Have the nurses heard this before? They laugh. They are so very kind.

We’ll find out what’s next based on some more tests. It seems it is always more. Which I guess is good.

nora bellNora got to ring “the bell” but as usual she shied away from the camera. However, if you look closely, you can see the fuzz on her head and that “I dare you” stare I know so well. Fortunately, the target is the cancer, not me.

Thank you, all of you.

Paul

P.S. All of you have been so gracious, so kind, so generous. Please spread Nora’s message to friends. Our “matching gift” ($1 = $1.50 for those new to this) ends June 30th.

 

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3 thoughts on “Update June 27 2013

  1. BEtsy Doughtie

    Congratulations, Nora!
    You made it through that wonderful/horrible chemo!
    You’d never know that I do think about you and pray for you every day, for, like Paul said, I’m too caught up in daily work and daily problems and challenges. A little fun, too. I went to Paris last month for a week with my sister.
    But do know that I continue to send good vibes your way every day and wish for you the strength to get through your next treatment and back to good health!
    Love, Betsy

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  2. sunni and dad

    NOT UNLIKE THE YOUNG GIRL YOUR DAD HAS SPOKEN OF SO OFTEN…
    COURAGEOUS,STRONG, POSITIVE IN EVERYTHING THAT COMES HER WAY.
    YOUR “LIFE PARTNER” ISN’T TO SHABBY EITHER.
    HEROS……………OUR HEROS
    DAILY IN OUR THOUGHTS……ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
    OUR LOVE TO YOU BOTH
    DAD AND SUNNI

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  3. Tana Coleman Melton

    Love and caring thoughts to you and Paul. Thinking of you daily and remembering you in my prayers each day. I hear your laugh as I write…stay strong Nora and know you are in our hearts.

    Tana & Dennnis

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