Our celebration of Nora’s life is just about ready. Thanks to everyone for making it happen. These have been long days for all of us. Family will be coming in tomorrow (Nov. 1. Happy birthday, brother Marty.) to help with last minute stuff. To remind everyone, this is not fancy, it is an oyster roast. Yes, jeans or shorts are most appropriate.

Think of it this way, you will be sitting or standing in Nora’s back yard, looking out at the pluff mud of Boyd Creek (low tide Saturday afternoon). You will be seeing what Nora saw, what she fell in love with, the sounds and smells and light playing on the Spartina grass. There was never a time when she looked out from our yard or deck or porch when she wasn’t dressed “comfortably.” Follow her lead. I did and profited from it.

You can bring your own oyster knife. For some of us shucking is an art form. While there will be plenty of wine, soft drinks, tea and water, feel free to bring your own beverage. Food, too. There should be plenty, but sometimes offering food to others helps us through these times.

Enough. I welcome you, my family welcomes you, to The Ridge.